I was asked
to speak in the workshop on Accommodating Diversity in Gender training
programmes. This is a great subject for me, allowing me to follow through on
inquires I have been involved in over the past dozen years. I have a long
history in pushing the envelope in women’s empowerment and more recently in understanding
how businesses and institutions benefit from taking into account that people
with whom they interact – clients, employees, other stakeholders - are more than one of two things, Man or
Woman. People are clients and they
are sources of information and they have multiple skills, multiple identities and multiple sources
of engagement. In any group of people, the way Men are perceived and the way Women are perceived varies greatly. I notice this in simple interactions. I often hear women experiencing me as powerful and men experiencing me as scary. My identity, in the eyes of others, is fluid. How wild is that!
In my
contribution, I brought in the concept of living from a future in which we all
live in dignity and respect. If you think that is a new concept, think again.
It is actually Article 1 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. I find
it incredibly compelling to work from that vision and to see what strategies we
could implement now that could forward the action. Any one of us can think of
something that can forward the action, depending on what our starting point is.
In Sweden, for example, a kindergarten has chosen to change the language it
uses with little ones. They no longer use the pronouns He or She and instead
refer to Friends. Imagine the
impact this will have on kids. They will not be forced into gender
stereotypical behaviours by the implicit assumptions of the kindergarten staff.
Hopefully they will learn that playing with dolls and bashing boxes can be
behaviours enjoyed by one and the same person, depending on the mood.
As I was
researching my presentation I came across an article on how 50% of the kids in craft classes in UK primary schools are boys. One of
them was a football player who loves knitting because it gives him peaceful
time. He is not required to run around and push and kick at all times and he
loves it. The simple strategy of having knitting clubs at schools can
contribute to developing a new notion of what being Boy is.
In the end, the notion of who belongs in a boardroom will change.
I am
grateful to Helga Christian and Landmark Education for the outstanding training
session I recently attended, called Transforming Yesterdays Strategies, where
we explored sex stereotypes and how they affect our reality. As children we
develop strategies around being boy, or being girl. We tend to keep and
strengthen the strategies, mostly because no-one ever tells us that we can
choose to keep them or get rid of them and take on different strategies. We
have, certainly as adults, the ability to reject strategies that don’t work for
us and our communities, and bringing this element of choice into gender
training is powerful.
More and more companies are inquiring into and developing the business case for diversity. It is taking the discussion on mainstreaming gender to a new level. In today’s
wrap-up of the conference, the moderator noted that the issue of diversity was
one of two "Hot Issues" of debate during the conference and added
that he expected it to be a source of change in how companies, public
institutions and civil society organisations reconstruct their relationship to
gender.
I have every
hope that this is the pathway to a world where all of us live in dignity and
respect.
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